Best Psychologist Sexologist Luton Near Me

4worldlovers: Now in my early forties, I have dedicated the past two decades of my life to helping people create rewarding, fulfilling and loving relationships which will enable them to fully reach their potential.

I genuinely believe that we are all trying to create the best possible lives for ourselves — but often we face emotional blocks, arising from difficult past experiences, which prevent us from moving forward. Self-doubt, fear and judgment play their parts, and we feel forever condemned to repeating the same mistakes. By working through challenging issues, and uncovering our true selves, we are able to begin again, and take strides forward in our lives.


Our emotional responses, our thoughts and behaviours, are all self-taught, and can certainly be unlearned, or adjusted and improved. Everyone possesses the ability to replace old habits and create new ones. No matter who you are and whatever your experience, good or bad, there is always the potential for personal development, and to grow into a happier new you.


As a mentor I will guide on a journey of your own making, to a place of authentic, soulful growth and personal development.

I try to ensure that my time with those seeking my help is a fun, enjoyable experience which brings out the best in those to whom I gladly offer my assistance. I find an interactive and participatory style helps those in my charge to embed their new knowledge more quickly and efficiently.

I use techniques from Solution-Focused and Cognitive Behavioural Therapies, as well as elements of Life Coaching, to create engaging and practical instruction. We set and review goals on a weekly basis, and with every session we develop new skills that can be immediately implemented into daily life.

Having worked with many people over the years, I am very well aware of the need for immediate change and development. The techniques I use create a series of small changes which build confidence in the process and so enable participants to consider the possibility of more challenging development — changes that before, felt impossible, now feel within reach.

I am grateful I have been given the opportunity and skills to turn my passion into my profession and help people grow. and I am committed to developing human potential wherever I am able.

Helping people work through issues in their lives and seeing how this change manifests itself, brings meaning to my life and work. As a mentor, I work with clients on every step of their journey and appreciate the privileged position this allows me.

4worldlovers: Proven and effective treatment. Established in the U.K. in 1994. Now over 25 years continuous professional practice in the U.K.

Helping men, women and couples to overcome fear of intimacy, sexual problems, dysfunctions or the effects of negative sexual experience and trauma.

4worldlovers: My name is Tom Corbishley MCCP, and I am a fully accredited member of UKCP (Reg. No. 2011164553) and a registered member of COSRT (Membership No. 3018). COSRT is the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists. I am trained in Clinical Sexology (Sex and Relationship Therapy), Contemporary Psychotherapy, and Pesso Boyden System Psychotherapy.

I am trained in Sex and Relationship Therapy for individuals and couples. That means I offer counselling for relationship problems and difficulties with sexual functioning. I work using Contemporary Psychotherapy, which is a pluralistic* approach, and I am also trained in Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor, which is a body based psychotherapy. *Pluralistic just means that I call upon everything I have learned to make the therapy fit your needs, rather than try to fit you to my preferred style of therapy.

My belief is that we all have the capacity (and indeed birthright) to be able to be happy. Happy doesn’t mean laughing all the time, it means comfortable in our own skin. Of course this doesn’t necessarily mean that everything in our lives runs smoothly, rather that we have all our inner resources recruited to serenely cope with whatever comes our way.

Most of us have a pretty good idea when things are not right. We feel pain, frustration, despair and alienation, and rather like an itch we just can’t scratch, the healthy solutions seem out of reach. I see my job as a psychotherapist to create a safe space for you to explore what’s going on, and then working together we will find the answers that are right for you. My objective is to help you turn your pain into pleasure, your frustration into satisfaction, your despair into meaning and your alienation into connectedness.

My particular area of interest is how the experiences of our formative years can shape our way of perceiving, and being, in the world today. Often experiences that did not validate our true nature show up later as anxiety, depression, feelings of shame and self destructive tendencies. This can affect our relationships and sexual functioning.